Do you want to know what I think? [ Billy's moving right on without waiting for an answer. ]

I think you need to stop treating things like huge secrets and just come out with it. Not to everyone, especially if it could endanger you or your friend. But if you're going to tell Jason and Loki something, just do it. Is running around and hiding stuff from them really helping anything? Keep your friends up to date and they won't have to worry about you as much.